Attitude towards children

 Attitude towards children

When we see a child who is very active, obedient, and well-behaved, it feels so good, right? Our heart involuntarily prays for them, and if that child is ours, it's even more pleasing when someone else praises them, saying that your child has very lovely habits. Our heart feels content.

Yes, dear faithful sisters, our environment influences good and bad habits. Whatever we are doing, children observe and imitate the same. They adopt our attitudes and behaviors.

What should we do?

1. Incorporate gentleness into your attitude.
2. A critical attitude negatively affects children. Instead of scolding, use the language of love.
3. Don't get angry. If something breaks or gets damaged, instead of scolding, give them a hug with love, ask if they're okay, and speak softly, saying, "My child, it's alright. You haven't hurt yourself. It takes a lot of patience and tolerance to do this, but learn to do it.
4. Create a pleasant home environment.
5. Pay attention to children, give them quality time, take an interest in their activities, and build a friendly relationship with them. If you don't have time, make time by reducing other tasks. Even 15 minutes will do, but make sure to spend it.
6. Any relationship, whether with a child, an elder, or a mother-in-law, requires attention and love. You know when a task is done with attention and love, it has a different flavor.
7. Instill in children the habit of sharing. Teach them to give things to others, whether it's toys, books, a pen, lunch, space, or time—whatever the age of the child, teach them to help others, support them in their studies, and participate in games.
8. Appreciate children's activities, hold them in your lap, and hug them. Our children are our energy source. In the tiredness of the whole day, we drain the energy of the children playing around us. Only then do we pay attention to them when we want them to do something, break something, or study?
9. Give the same attitude and attention to older children. Listen to them, seek their advice, and get involved with them. Believe me, your inner child will also be happy, and your irritability will disappear.
10. Invite your children's friends, they love it when we as parents respect and present them with love.
11. One big mistake we unknowingly make is scolding children in front of someone, especially in front of their friends. Never do this; it makes them feel very bad, and it also affects their self-respect, which we should never compromise.
12. Teach your children to follow Allah's path. Give them pocket money and tell them to give some as charity to those in need. This way, they will develop a sense of empathy for others.
13. Isolation between parents and children has increased. Take them along from childhood to adolescence. Take their opinions on sadness, advice, and life matters. If we, as parents, become their friends, they will never need to form friendships outside.

Remember, fathers should pay attention to the upbringing of their sons, and mothers should be sensitive to their daughters' matters. Learn to maintain balance in relationships.

The home, especially the mother, is the best training ground for children. When they grow up with it, they won't be influenced by the outside environment.

Apologies!!! Many people earn money, but they don't learn to live happily. Is it not like that nowadays?

If you earn for your children, then give them happiness as well. There is no benefit in earning money that ruins their childhood, destroys their innocence, and when